BAITERS according to Dr. Phil and Oprah, people who you feel strongly about in a negative way from the start due to intuition and then you ignore the feeling and give them the benefit of doubt. At the end of the day- they display all the traits listed above and you keep making excuses for them until you cant take it anymore and then the centre falls apart?
Then you realise that you had continued investing in them because you didnt want to lose the investment? “What’s worse than being in a bad relationship (friendship, coupleship etc) for a year? Being in it for a year and a day”- Dr. Phil.
I have been BAITED in the past by several people- too many to mention…I am even a bit embarrassed thinking about some of them. People who owe you money, others who take your love for granted, people who take your kindness for weaknesses etc. The sad part is the world will not exist without these type of people, and the moment you stop being yourself these people will win.
How do you deal with BAITERs when you come across them? I have noticed as I get older I just tend to listen more to my first sense of people and move on from there. And when i realise i have been BAITED i just quietly remove myself from the situation. I owe myself sanity, if nothing else in the least.
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