What do women really want in a partner /union/ relationships? This question was prompted by a comment on the investigating post a few days back. The husband is an ex-convict who has served his jail time and is still rolling in the dough and bringing home the bacon…at least that’s what Instagram says…someone commented saying “hey he is bringing home the money”.
I was also reading somewhere, young girl is in love with her bf- but she is worried because he has a different background from her in terms of social class…so she is worried if he will be able to provide a lifestyle which she is used to if they ever marry.
Going through comments often times makes me start to wonder. Leave out the physical qualities of tall, dark and handsome etc, my question is what do you seek in a partner? For me peace of mind has always been key, so have confidence and ambition (this is different from lip service). I am averse to partnering with any adult who is financially dependent on their folks- I am allergic to that sh*t frankly. As for money, somehow God has given me the grace of hard and sometimes smart work…i never think of partnering for money. I have had in abudance and I have had periods where N10k was a challenge. ..money is a visitor.
So my question is do people especially women in this day and age overlook many other qualities because money is present? I ignored someone who had private jets in his family because he lacked respect for me. I am not hungry and can provide a decent life for myself…absolute worst I will wash toilets to feed myself…won’t be the first time.
Please is money – a man’s money such a big deal to women irrespective of other bad qualities a man may posses?